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I added the comment below to this article, which explains a similar phenomenon in mental health: https://open.substack.com/pub/freyaindia/p/nobody-has-a-personality-anymore?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=qmo35

When I was 47 I went to see a doctor (the last time I ever did) about something totally unrelated and (to cut a long story short) ended up with an 'autism' diagnosis.

Prior to that I guess I'd always been a little quirky and artistic.

But now I was 'autistic'.

A few weeks after the diagnosis my 18 year old son took me to one side and told me that I'd changed - that I'd become a caricature of my new found 'status'.

And he was absolutely correct, the realisation of which hitting me really hard at the time.

This sparked a lot of research on my part, which eventually led to me writing to the person who'd given me the 'diagnosis' (the process of which, looking back, was a joke) robustly explaining why I now disagreed with it, and that I wanted it revoking.

They replied fairly quickly with a standard letter (oddly) stating that I hadn't completed the diagnostic process and therefore they couldn't offer a diagnosis either way.

I tried to contact them for clarification (as I'd already been given the formal diagnosis) but I never got any more out of them, assuming that this was the only way they were willing to revoke the diagnosis (lest they'd have to admit something they weren't comfortable doing so).

I checked with my doctors surgery, who confirmed that there was nothing on my records about an autism diagnosis, or even a referral to be assessed for one.

(Looking back I probably should have delved deeper and chased things up more, but I had a lot going on at the time and I guess I was just so relieved to put this 'episode' behind me.)

So, in large part thanks to my son's honesty, I was back to being my old quirky, 'artistic' self again.

That was 11 years ago, and I haven't given a thought to the idea of being 'autistic' since.

This is not to say that there aren't those to whom a diagnosis is helpful, but I can't help wonder just how many people there are these days who, under the influence of certain 'experts', have allowed themselves to become a 'caricature' of their given label, as I very briefly did.

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We raised a family of three children (now 37-41 years old) and, in their early days, we still had a family GP who knew us all well. As my children grew up, GP practices were privatised, many became corporations rather than partnerships and the intimate relationship between physician and patient was broken.

Our original family GP did not sit in front of a computer, usually chatted about our lifestyles and everyday stuff and rarely prescribed anything. He had a healthy disrespect for antibiotics and often discussed our exercise regimens, how much we walked, jogged or cycled, had sex and, apparently, was an expert on female cycles and wellness. He distrusted pharmaceutical reps.

All three children were born at home and their births were not medicalised in the slightest. We had a gas and air bottle near the bed and a rubber sheet to protect the mattress. With a midwife, of course, but she missed the third birth.

We minimised the children's vaccinations and had none ourselves. Even then, we had a "healthy" scepticism about the direction of the medical profession and their "unhealthy" links with big pharma. We didn't vaccinate our pets and they all lived long, healthy lives.

I do use the NHS's allopathic medicine for the services they are good at: some (necessary) surgery, scans (although CT scans have now been found to have very negative side effects -- https://www.icr.ac.uk/about-us/icr-news/detail/overuse-of-ct-scans-could-cause-100-000-extra-cancers-in-us#:~:text=The%20overuse%20of%20CT%20scans,the%20scan%20is%20clinically%20justified) and tests.

With recent illnesses in my family, I am convinced you are right about this, Miri. For instance, psychiatrists list of over 100 "diagnosed" conditions can cause havoc in people's lives. We all suffer from some psychological white coat effect.

Stay sceptical and, if you are encouraged to take any medication, do your own research on it first. I am 75 and have never been on any regular medication. Stick to sunlight and avoid artificial light as much as you can (that's another scam), exercise -- at a minimum walking, as Miri says avoid carbohydrates, get down to the weight you were when you were 21, grow plants, have pets and mix with lots of people.

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